You met no one special last year…?
In 2016, we made several cross continental matches.
The time differences can be challenging but it is always very exciting to make things happen for our clients.
One of successfully matched couples with LA matchmaker started off with SKYPE dates.
I think they had the least expectation about each other. He’s an entrepreneur / real estate developer and she’s well educated elite who travels all over the world for business and lead very international lifestyle. On the paper, they had nothing in common apart from the fact they were both open to meet someone outside of their country, both single and ready to find future life time partner. We thought they are both attractive, successful, interested in different culture, lead similar lifestyle, open minded and both right age to each other to consider.
Here’s how they get connected:
After weeks of SKYPE, they decided to meet up in France.
They are already familiar with each other by the time they met in person, although it was first time meeting each other. After that trip, they maintained the video calls. They made effort to spend time by visiting each other whenever they had time..even if it took over 9 hours to travel for just few days.
The last I heard was that they plan to find a place to live together, the engagement is on the way. We are anxious to hear about the wedding news!
Really… They would not have met each other if it wasn’t the introduction.
It is easy to lead the same life but it is really up to you to change something this year, too.
You can create the chance for better but it is also up to you to narrow the chance.
Funny how you can do everything in your mind, doesn’t it?
In many cases, we hear ;
“I want to marry Doctor”
“Oh s/he has to be tall”
“I want someone who earns 7 digits or more”
“I need to meet someone young”
….and the criteria lists are endless.
What I want to ask you is..,
What does the criteria does to you when the person has everything?
Did you meet anyone last year who had all the criteria you look for in partner..?
Do you think it is possible you are chasing after the criteria not the real person?
It is okay to have preferences. I just want to say you might be making lots of potentially wrong judgement based on limited information you are given about the person.
Can I tell you the truth..
The judgement process is the cause of narrowing down your chances.
You want to avoid making decision by relying on your “old” input which is not “updated” for quite sometime. You need to give yourself a chance to renew the information about the person according to the time.
The truth is…You will not find happiness in the criteria world!
There are so many wonderful people out there who are looking for someone special, just like you. Meeting different type of people can be special learning experience and discovery opportunity about yourself. It is up to you to simply continue to enjoy new company until you meet the “one” or to confirm your judgement about the person to remove yourself from the dating scene.
Here’s the expert’s advice:
Too many criteria can really narrow your chance to find the “one” and to kill your dating life. You will end up being that difficult and sore old single guy / woman you know!
The more open minded you are, you are likely to find the right partner.
Keep maximum 3 criteria and try meet the person if s/he meets even only 1.
Try this in 2017.
You will meet someone special to be with.