How has your dating life affected you during the COVID-19?
Those who had a chance to spend some moment to analyze the future life vision have asked questions how you can meet someone now that dating had stopped while the timeline is keep moving forward?
In the past few weeks, I’ve been very busy arranging the video meetings with those who are located in all over the world.
It has gotten so much easier for me to connect 2 dots on the map…since people are likely to be able to have flexible schedule and I am getting more candidates and clients who really don’t want to give up searching for the one to build the future with!
Many of you have done the online dating and hook-up Apps..it was almost a full time job screening out the profiles and get ups and down with hopes, but you found no one after all. Then what? What’s your next action.. (This is the best time to look for someone before you go back to the busy schedule again to pass months. It is already end of June!)
You had to submit me all the documents to probe who you say you are! Here’s my way of screening the match for you..
I really enjoy interviewing them before I introduce her to my client. Since I work very closely with my clients, I simply want to get to know the person who I intend to make introductions.
While having a good conversation, I am checking all sorts of points to review the compatibility… I ask, listen and learn about her so there’s more information than what you see in the profile paper!
I also check her profile photos real person, as you can never know how she really looks like if the face enhancing apps are used.
I know some agencies just arrange number of dates or count the number of introductions without sharing photos. No feedback. No support. That’s way easy.
My background as Japanese marriage consultant who works 24/7…and being a perfectionist, Japanese details / Kaizen mind-set, strong code of ethics, date coaching and sometimes overly eager to support character makes me be a unique private matchmaker in the world!
I had to think about this to compare with others because of the challenge I had to go through working with the “celebrity” matchmaker and her agency. I thought I was doing too much.
Then I realized that it is the formula for the long lasting business. Thank you for reading and Happy Father’s Day!
