Japanese men wanted by western women.
Over the past few months, we have been receiving many registration from American, Canadian and European women seeking to be match with Japanese men!
As much as we’d like to make that happen, we don’t often have Japanese men clients who are open to be matched with western woman. On the other hand, many International minded Japanese men come to join our “Marriage Consultation” service offered in La La Story to meet Japanese women. Now more Japanese men wanted as they are gaining popularity.
I wondered why Japanese men limit themselves to Japanese women.. (Despite of the fact that the Japanese women have such a great reputation when it comes to marriage partner…. respectful, thoughtful, considerate, educated, smart, well mannered and feminine..etc. I’d hate to say this but what you heard is not the reality! haha)
Traditionally speaking, international marriage service for Japanese men was to match with women in China, Thailand, Philippines and sometimes Russia for producing heirs in their ever declining country side. And the living condition was considered to be challenging terms for Japanese women to come to their village.
More and more women are educated and became financially independent so they no longer need to consider the marriage in such terms. (This change has contributed to the higher divorce rate, declining birthrate, lower marriage rate compared to the old days, which is currently the social problem in Japan.)
Just like Italian men loves mamma’s food, the Japanese men like his Japanese food, too.
A Japanese man said to me; “can the western woman understand what he is used to eat at home? Can she understand the Dashi, or/and Umami..? ”
This mentality makes difference between men and women. Women adopt to his living environment, learn his mamma’s food and make effort to be nice to his friends.
My western husband doesn’t understand Dashi or/and Umami despite of living in Japan close to 2 decades. I do understand them at some degree because I try to learn, but I don’t think my knowledge about my husband’s mamma’s food was a deal breaker.
Yes, two people having similar food preference is good, but not having full understanding about his food culture shouldn’t be a deal breaker.
So I want to welcome global minded Japanese men who are open to consider non-Japanese woman to be his life time partner. Japanese men wanted!
I want also welcome International women who are interested in meeting Japanese men to show some knowledge of Japanese language, culture, food, interest etc in the registration form to make introduction happen.
