What are your plans for Christmas, New Years Eve, and New Years Holiday…?
If you have no plans yet, this is the time to start planting seeds for next year to find someone for your life! There are just lots of events out there for you to sign up and meet new people who are totally “outside of your social circle”.
The holiday season is approaching and there are lots of parties to go to…! You have a great chance meeting someone to make the cold winter season very romantic, too. Ganbatte!
If you feel confident but you are not getting the girl to commit to make the next date, here’s a couple of check list for you.
☑ You look clean – shirts are pressed, no stains, no lint in your sweater, jacket and coat.
☑ Nicely shaved all around. Make sure you have no missing spots. You have been shaving for many years but you tend to have the habit of doing so. That means you might have the exactly the same spot you miss to shave…. And please Trim your nose hair, too! That’s important especially your woman is shorter.
☑ Smell nice and clean – avoid to wear too much perfume. Can you imagine you meet someone wearing heavily coated perfume and it is suffocating if you didn’t like the scent. It applies the same to the men.
☑ Check your posture. Besides how / what you talk about in conversation topics, how you appear when you are talking is very important…especially during the early stage of dating. Woman judge you based on how confident you are.
Even if you are feeling confident, if you don’t appear to be confident to the woman you want to impress, you are still not there yet. It is a good time to check how you are appearing to the women.
Here’s a good article to help you stand out. You don’t have to be a movie star level good looking guy to capture the heart of woman.
8 body language tricks to instantly appear more confident
Try it few times with and let me know how it worked out!
Happy Holidays!
Justine K – Pacific Match Global