When is the right time to start the search? A question came up during the consultation.
My answer is – “It is your choice as we don’t know when this is going to be over..”
We are going through the uncertain period right now.
There are travel restrictions and many countries are closing borders etc,
but once the things start moving everything will start moving fast. No one knows when that will happen right now.
Your choices are to wait until then (unknown time frame) by remaining the same life,
or move forward by doing something to change the personal situation by using the available means.
Many people are realizing how important to be with someone special,
especially in the time like this. So, there’s no bad time to start the search.
I get many enquires from people who realized the importance of sharing life with someone.
It is never too late to try searching for that person.
Unlike before, when things were swipe left and right speed, people are spending more quality time to get to know each other via text and/or video.
Even if you are able to travel right now,
you will be spending 3-8 weeks chatting before you feel comfortable enough to plan a trip to meet each other in person.
Even when you got connected with someone in your local area,
you would be cautious about going out to meet in person right away.
(All of my clients are cautious like that…)
The general idea of meeting strangers right now can be an unnecessary gamble.
Btw, some people don’t agree about staying home is to keep them safe.
It should not be all about them but it involves another person.
It is good to respect how the other person feels about meeting up before suggesting to meet up.
As I mentioned, it is up to you to make a move.
You can wait….. Or you act on it now in view of start connecting with someone-special-to-be this year so you maybe able to be in the relationship next year.
All of my clients got matched during the lockdown period in March / April last year.
It was really easy to set it up as everyone was home. The world was closed back then, but people didn’t stop searching for love.
Some clients making plans to meet each other in person after the months long communication.
(Some managed to meet in the country with relatively light entry requirement, but many still haven’t been able to meet in person..unfortunately.)
Feel free to reach me to discuss about how you feel, ask questions until you are sure to start your global search.
